tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6729901.post109625692126640081..comments2024-01-05T15:42:56.628-05:00Comments on RoseByAny @-;----: Amiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06902177995467607477noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6729901.post-1128974607265346302005-10-10T16:03:00.000-04:002005-10-10T16:03:00.000-04:00Okay - he has abdicated his right to cry "sensitiv...Okay - he has abdicated his right to cry "sensitivity" over ANY topic when he did the "This is more than you want to know, but I wanted to tell you that I peed, but I put the lid up, and afterwards I put it back down." comment.<BR/><BR/>That's clearly demonstrating INsensitivity to you after you asked him not to be all TMI and stuff about his bathroom habits.<BR/><BR/>(I will admit I'd've been tempted to 'fight fire with fire' and discuss my - um - 'once a month womanly functions' in front of him, but it would (a) be stooping to his level and (b) he might actually get a kick out of it).<BR/> <BR/>I guess if it were me, I would say: "okay. I'm going to lay it on the line and be very clear. Your discussion of your bathroom habits bothers me and I regard it as an unwelcome and unnecessary intrustion. If you keep it up, I will let our boss know, and I will tell him that I warned you about it." (And I'd follow through - maybe not the first time the slob "forgot", but certainly the third or fourthfillyjonkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13016436113169230368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6729901.post-1128972492943152742005-10-10T15:28:00.000-04:002005-10-10T15:28:00.000-04:00Incredibly callous of me in most cases, but honest...Incredibly callous of me in most cases, but honestly, is anyone really so concerned with hurting his poor, sensitive widdle feelings that they can't tell him he needs a life? Does anyone else have similar harassment from him or is he focused on you specifically? Either way, you have my sympathies!KThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03870494477834182986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6729901.post-1116471500601793612005-05-18T22:58:00.000-04:002005-05-18T22:58:00.000-04:00If he tried talking to me like that again, I'd sim...If he tried talking to me like that again, I'd simply turn and walk away. Do that enough times and he *should* get the hint to shut up about it!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6729901.post-1096824217834686152004-10-03T13:23:00.000-04:002004-10-03T13:23:00.000-04:00What a gross moron! Maybe for him it IS a sexual t...What a gross moron! Maybe for him it IS a sexual thing in some weird, totally warped way. I HAVE heard of people with sexual fetishes about poo.Marlenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08670952038534759102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6729901.post-1096339296860503502004-09-27T22:41:00.000-04:002004-09-27T22:41:00.000-04:00He's got some serious problems. Is he socially def...He's got some serious problems. Is he socially deficient in other ways, or does he save all this for you?Jensgalorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08835640902319088468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6729901.post-1096337113847899292004-09-27T22:05:00.000-04:002004-09-27T22:05:00.000-04:00Just in case any of you are interested, I have "th...Just in case any of you are interested, I have "the good toilet paper" over at my blog. Feel free to leave RoseByAny (who clearly smells of camel expectorant) and come use the toilet paper at my place.<br /><br /><br />Wait, what am I saying, I don't want AC or anyone else coming over just to use the water closet, ACK!!!<br /><br /><br />Alyx<br />http://stringtheoryfiberarts.typepad.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6729901.post-1096322301709822042004-09-27T17:58:00.000-04:002004-09-27T17:58:00.000-04:00At first I found it amusing too, then it turned to...At first I found it amusing too, then it turned to outright horrifying. You should definitely report this man for his boorish behavior. Harassment does not have to be sexual. To tell you that it's normal for all coworkers to discuss their bathroom habits in detail is ridiculous. For one second, I did consider you could try to “outgross” him, but I'm fairly certain a man of this caliber would just relish anything distasteful you told him.<br /><br />Seriously, I believe I would bring a small tape recorder to work. There would be no need to hide it, I think this man would enjoy the thought of being taped. As soon as he starts one of those...I know you don't want to hear... You say, oh Bozo, hold on a minute, I don't want to miss any of this. Pop the tape recorder on the desk and start to record. Either he will realize he should stop now (doubtful) or you will have full evidence to present to your boss.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6729901.post-1096319185000302612004-09-27T17:06:00.000-04:002004-09-27T17:06:00.000-04:00Leave it to a person living in the deep South to t...Leave it to a person living in the deep South to think of this: How about wrapping up a nice box of corncobs and giving to him. (evil grin)<br />What a nincompoop!Carolynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03870133732368801713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6729901.post-1096312207990286332004-09-27T15:10:00.000-04:002004-09-27T15:10:00.000-04:00You can inform your co-worker that no, not everyon...You can inform your co-worker that no, not everyone shares like that with their co-workers!! Eww--how can he possibly think that is natural and ok. I don't even talk like that around my sister, mother, or husband. I hope he figures it out soon!Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17553973174989114701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6729901.post-1096307532520868782004-09-27T13:52:00.000-04:002004-09-27T13:52:00.000-04:00I'm a horrible judge of age. He's at least in his...I'm a horrible judge of age. He's at least in his late 40's, fat, receeding hairline with a greying mullet...<br /><br />A real class act.Amiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06902177995467607477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6729901.post-1096295984063470772004-09-27T10:39:00.000-04:002004-09-27T10:39:00.000-04:00Oh wow... this is... unbelievable. I've heard stor...Oh wow... this is... unbelievable. I've heard stories of sick co-workers and dysfunctional workplaces, but this sounds like a really, really bizarre and unpleasant (not to mention invasive and boundariless) person. I'm so sorry.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15741341637773341804noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6729901.post-1096293674012038322004-09-27T10:01:00.000-04:002004-09-27T10:01:00.000-04:00SP,
AC is a huge jerk. I can rough him up if you...SP,<br /><br />AC is a huge jerk. I can rough him up if you want.<br /><br />If he persists if making his private problems and nuances public then he'll need alot more than Charmin Ultra to prevent his 'reaction'to my steel toed boot in his whoopsydaisy.<br /><br />GBAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6729901.post-1096292794803297982004-09-27T09:46:00.000-04:002004-09-27T09:46:00.000-04:00good lord! at first i thought your story was funny...good lord! at first i thought your story was funny but then the more i read the more horrified i became. i'm really sorry you have to deal with that guy. it really would seem to border on harrassment but i know how you feel about actually speaking up. hope this situation gets better for you.<br /><br />carolyn<br />sobsister.typepad.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6729901.post-1096291093470188752004-09-27T09:18:00.000-04:002004-09-27T09:18:00.000-04:00OMG! Why on earth would AC think you are interest...OMG! Why on earth would AC think you are interested in his bathroom habits?? My husband had a BOSS who frequently told them the color of his BMs. I kid you not. "Today it is tan, but yesterday it was dark brown." How do you tell boss to shut up?? Good luck in not doing serious damage to AC.Donnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08817210186361382675noreply@blogger.com